Belly follows a recurring pattern for teen drama leading ladies: picking the older brother. Netflix’s own hit, My Life With the Walter Boys, and The CW’s supernatural classic, The Vampire Diaries, both trace a similar path. And – though the former is still running – in both cases, book converts or alert viewers are quick to notice the foreshadowing. It seems certain, even from the first brushes with the brothers, who our heroine will end up with, like a path towards certain fate, a Godly calling.
So, why do we condemn their sins? If Belly, Jackie and Elena are simply following a predestined path – of the heart, of a higher power – can we hold them accountable? I definitely could. If Belly were our real life friend, I think most of us would need to have a sit-down talk with her about messing with brothers deep in grief. Perhaps we would judge Jackie and Elena less harshly, considering their own brushes with familial loss, but I doubt we would excuse them. Predestined or not, they hurt people on their path. That to me is reason enough to, at the very least, inquire.
Most of these stories, to me, reflect the desire to be wanted. In a society that so commonly views women from a place of male desire, it is only natural to want to be wanted. And while I would hope most of us have the sense to keep inner fantasies of brothers fighting for our love to ourselves, many girls just need an escape. To fancy yourself so wanted as to break up friendships, brotherhoods, is to feel completely visible, seen.
It is, after all, all about being seen. Producers, writers and media execs don’t care if we would be friends with our female protagonists, so long as we talk about them enough to keep watching. The ratings stay up, even if our respect is at an all-time low. A love triangle, especially one absurd enough to border on incest, hooks viewers. It ups the ante of the ship wars of regular love triangles, and ups the viewers, too: the final season of TSITP drew in 25 million viewers within its first 7 days of release, while TVD remained a CW top performer for much of its 8-season run.